Skip to main content

Meeting some of Estella's Team




Brian and I headed for the MFM office Tuesday, August 1. Our appointment was at 10:45am and we got called back around 11:00am. Our ultrasound technician was wonderful. She was so kind and it turned out she lived in the same town we did. It was a long ultrasound and one where questions were asked, but answers were not able to be given. Estella was moving a lot during the first half of the ultrasound which was fun to see and good to hear her heartbeat (155 bpm). Throughout the ultrasound the technician had to leave from time to time to talk to the doctor and to see what remaining images he wanted.

About 12:30pm the ultrasound was finally completed and into the room came the maternal fetal medicine specialist doctor and genetic counselor. The doctor told Brian and me that our baby had some significant birth defects: a bilateral cleft lip with possible palate involvement, a VSD heart defect, and Dandy Walker Malformation that affects the cerebellum in the brain. I sat on the ultrasound table and sobbed. We had already come to terms with the cleft lip/palate and knew we could handle that. Estella would need surgery at the age of 4-6 months to repair her cleft lip and 12 months to repair her palate. We also had accepted the heart defect and knew surgery was done on infants regularly that had heart defects and the outcome was typically positive. But when the doctor said there was a defect in the brain, we didn’t know what to think and it seemed like there was too much up against our baby girl.

We headed back to the genetic counselor's office, to discuss genetic screening in more detail. We began with reviewing the findings of what the ultrasound saw. Estella definitely had Dandy Walker Malformation, Bilateral Cleft Lip, and a VSD heart defect. Along with those, the following features were red flagged: Nasal Bone (hypoplastic), EIF of the Heart, Echogenic Bowel, Club Feet, Ascites (Fluid in the Tummy), and concerns with the kidneys. From there we were presented with 2 options of either doing amniocentesis or having a blood screen. The benefits of an amniocentesis is that it would give definite results if the baby had a chromosomal defect. The doctor was possibly thinking Estella could have Trisomy 18 or Trisomy 13. The blood screen (CellFree DNA or Genome Screen) would identify high likely or low likely for a chromosomal defect. We decided on the Genome Screen due to the risk of miscarriage being 1 in 500 to 1 in 1,000 if an amniocentesis was done. We also will be able to find if a chromosomal defect is the cause once the baby is born, the prognosis if it is chromosomal, and the likelihood of its recurrence, all the same things an amniocentesis would show without the risk.

After the genetic counseling appointment, we had a consult with the Maternal Fetal Medicine Specialist. He explained in more detail any questions we had about conditions that were noted on the ultrasound. He also prepared us that the baby is at an increased risk for miscarriage until she is born or to be born stillbirth. We ended our day with plans to return in 3 weeks to have another ultrasound to get more detailed images of Estella’s brain, to check fluid levels, and to compare pictures from the previous ultrasound. Along with the ultrasound we would go over the Genome Screen in more detail and possibly see the pediatric cardiologist as well.


What Estella and our family need from here is prayer.
  • Please pray that Estella does not have a chromosomal defect. The reason being if she does they will not do surgery on her once she is born to fix the heart defect.
  • Please pray for those red flags on Estella’s ultrasound from August 1 to improve or for them to disappear.
  • Finally, please pray for Estella's safe delivery and wisdom for Brian and me once she is born on decisions that need to be made to best care for her.

We hope our blog is quiet for a few weeks. My next OB visit is the week of August 21 and our MFM appointment is the week of August 28. Thank you for your prayers. We serve a God that can heal and do miracles. Through our daughter’s story and our family’s journey we hope you will see God’s strength and His love.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

6 years

I have attempted to write this post multiple times in the last 2 years and just never have been able to quite finish it. My thoughts would come out, but they were never quite complete. So here is my attempt today. It will be 6 years on Saturday you have been gone and I can honestly say not a day goes by that you are not thought of. I constantly wonder what our life would look like if you were here. I know it would look different, but I can't help but think it would still be so very much the same just filled with even more love and joy because of you. I also am not so naive to know it would not have more hardships too. Your life, your odyssey, Oscar, gave so much hope and joy to others. You were so very loved by individuals that never even met you. I think that is what your Dad and I are still trying to do for you six years later to continue your odyssey. To honor your life and memory, by spreading love and hope, and remembering the sweet promise that we will be reunited with you a

Merry Christmas from The Kasers 2023

As the calendar inches closer to the end of the year we always enjoy seeing and hearing updates from our family and friends. No matter if we are fortunate enough to have our paths crossed or this greeting is our only interaction, know you are in our prayers and we hope you will enjoy this most blessed time of year. Our 4th child, Finneas McClish, graced us with his arrival on June 1st. It is hard to believe he is 6 months old already and lights up any room with his big smile. Brooks, now 4, started afternoon preschool at the elementary school across the street from our house. He has quickly blossomed into a social butterfly and is always looking forward to a playdate with new found classmates. Theodore, now a reading loving 3rd grader, thinks it is pretty cool having his little brother at school with him. Teddy also has really enjoyed being a part of Boy Scouts and is always looking for adventure. As you can imagine Julie has her hands full keeping everyone organized, but she tackles

Day 29 - With Broken Hearts

It is with broken hearts we wanted to let you know Oscar went home to be with Jesus at 11:35am today, Saturday, December 16, 2017. Oscar as you know was taken off the endotracheal tube on Tuesday, December 12, and placed on a nasal endotracheal tube to see if he could maintain his airway with less support. We also were providing him with Versed to help him relax and rest during this transition. Oscar had a large drop in his blood sugars on Thursday, December 14, in the evening. Due to this they placed Oscar on continuous feeds and upped his calories to 28 calorie Elecare. It seemed this helped, but it was not a complete fix. After his low sugar of a 26 on Thursday night he had a hard time getting settled even with doses of the Versed every 6 hours. Then on Friday, December 15, we tried Oscar off the ventilator with no support this was around 12:30pm. He seemed to be retracting lots and having a hard time breathing. We then placed him on nose ram cannula with oxygen support. The