Merry Christmas 2019

As the calendar turns over to yet another year it is time for a Kaser family update. We pray and hope this note finds you and yours enjoying time surrounded by loved one’s frolicking in all of your favorite traditions.

Over the summer we added to our ranks! Brooks Graham Kaser was born July 5th and his smile always brings joy to our day, even if it is followed by a river of drool. Currently, he is working on pushing his first teeth through and his best baby dinosaur roar impersonation. We also have a preschooler now! Theodore attends half days Monday through Thursday at the school right across the street. He always comes home with a good story or carefully manicured craft. Other big news for Theodore he just turned 5. We celebrated his birthday just over a month ago with his first all kid party. The theme was Star Wars and you might just say it was out of this galaxy. Our boys truly keep us on our toes, but we are always left wondering the adventures we would have if Oscar were here to join us. #OscarStrong #UntilWeMeetInHeaven

Julie has really enjoyed settling into her stay at home mom role. She continues to watch our nephews a few days a week which always adds major excitement at the house. The sewing machine or freezer is constantly being stocked with homemade creations that Julie makes with care. I have continued my position as the Attendance Specialist for Washington Local Schools. I really enjoy helping families in all kinds of situations improve student attendance. You may have noticed Chuck, our beloved slobber faced family dog, missing this year. We lost him in the spring and ever since Theodore has been asking what kind of pet we are getting next, including everything from a snake to a fish to a hamster.

We hope to connect with as many of you as we can over this Christmas Season. May God bless you during this busy time of year and we pray that you find time to rest in the peace and hope that comes from our Lord and Savior.

The Kasers

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